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Closed General Respect/Handling Grief
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Neither actually. I know that sounds confusing, but this is another part of why I can't mention anything.
This is also sort of why I want you to just message me in game for the full story, mostly about who this troublemaker in question is.
You're not listening. Its only a small number of people in tarlach. You would have to be blind to not see who is doing what. She said this. She said she could point out multiple people. Which we have all insinuated from the beginning. You are literally the only person that thinks it is one person.
I do know how to read "english". Thank you for asking.
But do you know how to read and comprehend sentence written using alphabet and english language ?
This thread is asking for suggestion without pointing names to specific person. To make it more clear, both person involved are intentionally left out from the loop. The point of this thread is about the behaviour and not the person i repeat its not about the person involved.
You are here pointing fingers without any consideration and demands things that people here intentionally left out from their post.
They are nice enough to tell you how to get the rest of thr story but you choose to make a scene here and rate people post with troll rating and mock other people post.
Mind you its not just just one person, there is a few people here telling you to go to tarlach if you want the rest of the story.
Some of us here have no intention of doing that and just want to see other perspective on what people do in op situation. We respect the op and will not ask about the person nor ask any further about the story since that is not what this thread is about.
Is that clear enough for you to comprehend ?
im not standing up for anyone. i simply stayed on topic, which was "My question to the community is what do you do? When blacklisting doesnt block notes and reporting will only get them a temporary ban at most, how do you handle the grief and disrespect and keep it from bothering you too much? Do you stand up for the person being attacked or do you keep your head down and walk away?"
My answer was simply that if your getting notes after you blacklisted them, then you can report it. :T
If Paradox ended up harassing someone they black listed or black listed them, then thats when paradox is most likely able to get reported. +++No matter who started it.+++
Your issue is your still stuck on a much smaller picture. which is "whose this person?" and "did you start it?"
Whether or not the other side of the story is told here tonight is irrelevant ... -- There still is one.
If you just jumped into the game from the start I could have told you the entire story by now.
I'm not joking. It really could have been that simple.
Instead of solving the problem, the one you made but you won't ever view it that way because protagonist syndrome, you just continue in an endless cycle of accusations.
I came back to this thread to help you and clear up misinformation forming in your mind.
Apparently you can't even work with that. So I shall take my leave.
You did indeed prove it takes two people to argue. I see that now very clearly. Congrats. Now go argue by yourself because as far as I'm concerned and i think most can agree with me. We are done helping you prove your own points.
even if you both argued, if Nilrem black listed you in mabi, and you continued to message them, they still have the abillity to report you
the forum of course is different. so even though you proved that it takes two to argue. it takes 1 person to END a argument.
[edit] which is a much more effective method
[second edit] i also said someone can walk up to you and just spout w/e they wanted and black listed you without you saying anything. and they could still send a ticket reporting you, if you messaged them after them telling you not to message them.
thats why i dont believe arguing matters....
the person didnt know, they said everything BUT sending a ticket. thats why i clarified. - thats why this post exists.. even if its a real argument, the issue of the post is "what do i do about it" and the person name wasnt mentioned. you dont say "send a ticket and take the post down". its clear written post without names, about how to solve an issue they didnt know how.
its "touchy" but its irrelevant.
Logged in seeing 70 unread posts, had to prepare this gif asap before entering this lol.
My advice; if a person who you have been in an argument is sending vile notes, do not hesitate to screenshot and send a ticket.
Many have said this before but it's what you should do if it escalates to that.
It may work, just do not put faith in it. In the first place, I find it better to avoid.
Jeez, I never took this thread as being sided at all. It merely mentioned harassment, but made no mention to the In Game Names, but as a general discussion on how to handle such a concern, which does happen, mind you. Does. It is more akin to a hypothetical than any on sided self defense presented.
Let's just make a better blacklisting system.