Hardmuscle wrote: »In case you didn't notice. I didn't disagree with your initial post. I simply implied this thread was better off dead.I didn't know this - as you can tell by my initial post. I had nothing to do with this situation and my advice was directed at those who have experienced harassment, not the OP directly.
I care about those people who need this advice and therefore I made my experience known without giving any details. Whether you think I've actually experienced this or not - that is not the point of my post. My post is about what to do or feel if a situation happens. It's merely related to the topic, not directly involved.
You were not defending yourself against anything in this thread. ~ Reading it will help you comprehend it better.You are part of the equation.They're just going to keep replying in order to be the " " last-words " " .
No matter how many people like what you post, or how many posts you like. This thread's purpose is the same.
Hardmuscle wrote: »This thread was created with the intent to harass a certain person (with a 3 letter name) on the Tarlach Server. While certain people in this thread will tell you it's not about this person (in the thread); those same people have no problem sending private messages to wail about their rights to harass this specific person. That is why this thread died last week.Hardmuscle wrote: »Wow. Talk about taking what was said out of context. I didn't say you broke any rules. I said the thread doesn't belong here, because it is in fact about a specific user whose name will not be stated. The thread died 6 days ago, and all you're doing now is beating a dead horse to get the last word. On topic or not.Hardmuscle wrote: »This thread (about a specific person; named or not) died 6 days ago. The below image is an accurate representation of your post. I'm not saying I disagree with anything you said; just that this situation did not belong in the forum to start with; let alone need to be revived a week later.Fun fact: I've been harassed non-stop here on the forums and on the game for almost a year now, and have continuously reported said people(s). What has Nexon done? Absolutely nothing besides lock threads. That's all.
My best advice to anyone going through this: Be sure you screenshot anything via MABINOGI and even take a video of it through Mabi. They will not check screenies from other programs. They'll just mark your case closed wether valuable evidence or not (this happened too me).
If harassment continues, just ignore it. Screenshot, move on. You have better things to take care of rather than focus solely on this or leave the game because of it.
In truth: This game was made for enjoyment, and it's really up to you if you let this stop you from enjoying the game. If it's really a big deal to you and it outweighs your love for this game, be my guest and let if affect how you socialize or if you continue socializing; that's your honest opinion/decision. But, if you ignore it and move on and not talk about it, you can go back to your life.
Piece of advice: If you completely ignore something and continue living your life, you are untouchable by trolls or rude people. Don't let someone else defy your love for this game and it's community.
I'm actually allowed to post on any thread as long as the last comment does not exceed a month's time OuO . I felt like something should be said, so I said it. The initial situation may have been about a specific person or group, however my post is directed towards those who actually have no idea how to handle a similar situation. VFMs handled the issue in the initial post, so it really doesn't matter if I post, given mine is about a general-calling. It's also not necro-bumping or generally bumping since my comment has something relevant to the topic - whether anyone feels like I should have said anything or not.
Harassment happens somewhere ingame everyday. Not to mention, it causes a lot of people to be overly stressed/depressed if they're unsure how to handle the situation. Since this is something I have a personal experience in, I feel like my two-cents was fine to be given considering the situation I'm in hasn't had action taken by Nexon at all. This is just a wake-up call to those who are in the same position as this:
"You don't need to quit the game or ignite a situation further just because Nexon doesn't take action. Just ignore it, move on, if it continues oh well, it won't matter in the long run. If other people stick their noses in the wrong place that's their fault. Don't worry about it."
Given how I haven't posted on this thread and my comment was civil and on-topic, I kindly disagree that my comment was against any rules and was simply advice to those who have no idea on how to handle a situation similar to this
I'm actually standing up for myself because I haven't commented here and I feel like you're denying that right even though OP broke the rules (to which I actually had nothing to do with) - I haven't had time to comment on much for a week and I have experience in this particular field, so I wanted to give my advice.
Sorry for "taking it out of context", but I thought you were referring to bumping (meaning the thread was too old or inactive to comment in). The thread was on the first page, and I felt like I could comment so I did.
I didn't refer to anything that OP said besides advice on how to deal with harassment - to which I will repeat - and I will add I have nothing to do with that situation:
If someone harasses you and nothing is done, move on, focus on what really matters - because it is doubtful it will come up again in the long run. If it does, continue to be happy and have fun in the game - which is it's initial purpose.
Hardmuscle wrote: »Wow. Talk about taking what was said out of context. I didn't say you broke any rules. I said the thread doesn't belong here, because it is in fact about a specific user whose name will not be stated. The thread died 6 days ago, and all you're doing now is beating a dead horse to get the last word. On topic or not.Hardmuscle wrote: »This thread (about a specific person; named or not) died 6 days ago. The below image is an accurate representation of your post. I'm not saying I disagree with anything you said; just that this situation did not belong in the forum to start with; let alone need to be revived a week later.Fun fact: I've been harassed non-stop here on the forums and on the game for almost a year now, and have continuously reported said people(s). What has Nexon done? Absolutely nothing besides lock threads. That's all.
My best advice to anyone going through this: Be sure you screenshot anything via MABINOGI and even take a video of it through Mabi. They will not check screenies from other programs. They'll just mark your case closed wether valuable evidence or not (this happened too me).
If harassment continues, just ignore it. Screenshot, move on. You have better things to take care of rather than focus solely on this or leave the game because of it.
In truth: This game was made for enjoyment, and it's really up to you if you let this stop you from enjoying the game. If it's really a big deal to you and it outweighs your love for this game, be my guest and let if affect how you socialize or if you continue socializing; that's your honest opinion/decision. But, if you ignore it and move on and not talk about it, you can go back to your life.
Piece of advice: If you completely ignore something and continue living your life, you are untouchable by trolls or rude people. Don't let someone else defy your love for this game and it's community.
I'm actually allowed to post on any thread as long as the last comment does not exceed a month's time OuO . I felt like something should be said, so I said it. The initial situation may have been about a specific person or group, however my post is directed towards those who actually have no idea how to handle a similar situation. VFMs handled the issue in the initial post, so it really doesn't matter if I post, given mine is about a general-calling. It's also not necro-bumping or generally bumping since my comment has something relevant to the topic - whether anyone feels like I should have said anything or not.
Harassment happens somewhere ingame everyday. Not to mention, it causes a lot of people to be overly stressed/depressed if they're unsure how to handle the situation. Since this is something I have a personal experience in, I feel like my two-cents was fine to be given considering the situation I'm in hasn't had action taken by Nexon at all. This is just a wake-up call to those who are in the same position as this:
"You don't need to quit the game or ignite a situation further just because Nexon doesn't take action. Just ignore it, move on, if it continues oh well, it won't matter in the long run. If other people stick their noses in the wrong place that's their fault. Don't worry about it."
Given how I haven't posted on this thread and my comment was civil and on-topic, I kindly disagree that my comment was against any rules and was simply advice to those who have no idea on how to handle a situation similar to this
Hardmuscle wrote: »This thread (about a specific person; named or not) died 6 days ago. The below image is an accurate representation of your post. I'm not saying I disagree with anything you said; just that this situation did not belong in the forum to start with; let alone need to be revived a week later.Fun fact: I've been harassed non-stop here on the forums and on the game for almost a year now, and have continuously reported said people(s). What has Nexon done? Absolutely nothing besides lock threads. That's all.
My best advice to anyone going through this: Be sure you screenshot anything via MABINOGI and even take a video of it through Mabi. They will not check screenies from other programs. They'll just mark your case closed wether valuable evidence or not (this happened too me).
If harassment continues, just ignore it. Screenshot, move on. You have better things to take care of rather than focus solely on this or leave the game because of it.
In truth: This game was made for enjoyment, and it's really up to you if you let this stop you from enjoying the game. If it's really a big deal to you and it outweighs your love for this game, be my guest and let if affect how you socialize or if you continue socializing; that's your honest opinion/decision. But, if you ignore it and move on and not talk about it, you can go back to your life.
Piece of advice: If you completely ignore something and continue living your life, you are untouchable by trolls or rude people. Don't let someone else defy your love for this game and it's community.