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  • TheDumbOneTheDumbOne
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    Hardmuscle wrote: »
    Nilrem wrote: »
    Hardmuscle wrote: »
    Whether or not the other side of the story is told here tonight is irrelevant ... -- There still is one.

    If you just jumped into the game from the start I could have told you the entire story by now.
    I'm not joking. It really could have been that simple.

    Instead of solving the problem, the one you made but you won't ever view it that way because protagonist syndrome, you just continue in an endless cycle of accusations.

    I came back to this thread to help you and clear up misinformation forming in your mind.
    Apparently you can't even work with that. So I shall take my leave.
    I made it my own by asserting it takes more than one person to argue? or you made it mine by proving it?


    even if you both argued, if Nilrem black listed you in mabi, and you continued to message them, they still have the abillity to report you :)
    the forum of course is different. so even though you proved that it takes two to argue. it takes 1 person to END a argument.
    HardmuscleSherri
  • HardmuscleHardmuscle
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    edited August 29, 2017
    TheDumbOne wrote: »
    Hardmuscle wrote: »
    Nilrem wrote: »
    Hardmuscle wrote: »
    Whether or not the other side of the story is told here tonight is irrelevant ... -- There still is one.

    If you just jumped into the game from the start I could have told you the entire story by now.
    I'm not joking. It really could have been that simple.

    Instead of solving the problem, the one you made but you won't ever view it that way because protagonist syndrome, you just continue in an endless cycle of accusations.

    I came back to this thread to help you and clear up misinformation forming in your mind.
    Apparently you can't even work with that. So I shall take my leave.
    I made it my own by asserting it takes more than one person to argue? or you made it mine by proving it?


    even if you both argued, if Nilrem black listed you in mabi, and you continued to message them, they still have the abillity to report you :)
    the forum of course is different. so even though you proved that it takes two to argue. it takes 1 person to END a argument.
    That's absolutely true ... except the in-game report is broken, in that, it (itself) doesn't let the player know they've been blocked.


  • TheDumbOneTheDumbOne
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    edited August 29, 2017
    sending a ticket still reporting. which is what i said in my first ticket.
    [edit] which is a much more effective method
    [second edit] i also said someone can walk up to you and just spout w/e they wanted and black listed you without you saying anything. and they could still send a ticket reporting you, if you messaged them after them telling you not to message them.
    thats why i dont believe arguing matters....
  • HardmuscleHardmuscle
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    edited August 29, 2017
    TheDumbOne wrote: »
    sending a ticket still reporting. which is what i said in my first ticket.
    [edit] which is a much more effective method
    I said this in my first post (or rather I implied this would have been better off dealt with in a ticket). :)

  • TheDumbOneTheDumbOne
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    Hardmuscle wrote: »
    TheDumbOne wrote: »
    sending a ticket still reporting. which is what i said in my first ticket.
    [edit] which is a much more effective method
    I said this in my first post (or rather I implied this would have been better off dealt with in a ticket). :)

    the person didnt know, they said everything BUT sending a ticket. thats why i clarified. - thats why this post exists.. even if its a real argument, the issue of the post is "what do i do about it" and the person name wasnt mentioned. you dont say "send a ticket and take the post down". its clear written post without names, about how to solve an issue they didnt know how.
    its "touchy" but its irrelevant.
  • HardmuscleHardmuscle
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    edited August 29, 2017
    TheDumbOne wrote: »
    [second edit] i also said someone can walk up to you and just spout w/e they wanted and black listed you without you saying anything. and they could still send a ticket reporting you, if you messaged them after them telling you not to message them.
    thats why i dont believe arguing matters....
    Sometimes reporting people can get you banned too (in-game mostly). If (for example), you think (for some reason) reporting someone first gives you a blanket pardon for everything you said to that person ... (yeah .. that's right .. reports go both ways.. -- so keep the chins clean).
    TheDumbOne wrote: »
    Hardmuscle wrote: »
    TheDumbOne wrote: »
    sending a ticket still reporting. which is what i said in my first ticket.
    [edit] which is a much more effective method
    I said this in my first post (or rather I implied this would have been better off dealt with in a ticket). :)

    the person didnt know, they said everything BUT sending a ticket. thats why i clarified. - thats why this post exists.. even if its a real argument, the issue of the post is "what do i do about it" and the person name wasnt mentioned. you dont say "send a ticket and take the post down". its clear written post without names, about how to solve an issue they didnt know how.
    its "touchy" but its irrelevant.
    Read my first post (on Page 1), directly below yours. :)
    Hardmuscle wrote: »
    It takes two or more people to argue. There is no such thing as a one person argument (unless you're mentally ill, of course). I cannot (nor should anyone else) answer your question properly (or even legitimately) without knowing both sides of the story (there is no such thing as a one sided story). I am sure this person chose the other person for no reason at all, and I am sure you could have asked for this information in the form of a ticket or in private to a parent or a friend close-by; as opposed to in front of a public audience serving no purpose outside of fanning the flames.



  • RheyRhey
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    This thread...

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    Hardmuscle
  • GretaGreta
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    edited August 29, 2017
    Okay... Time to grab popcorns again...

    yNiBv8S.gif

    Logged in seeing 70 unread posts, had to prepare this gif asap before entering this lol.
    Hardmuscle
  • SherriSherri
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    Are we done now? My lord..

    My advice; if a person who you have been in an argument is sending vile notes, do not hesitate to screenshot and send a ticket.
    Many have said this before but it's what you should do if it escalates to that.
  • BlissfulkillBlissfulkill
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    edited August 30, 2017
    I would say confront, but this is not real life. Lacking someone quite capable of laying a balled fist in your face makes the ideal of assertion far harder when the person is so pathetic to dedicate this much time to tormenting a person they do not know, nor actively perceive as "human". Some may not care for this, having faith in their impunity, and on my years on the internet, some cannot be reasoned with, or even hold themselves accountable when the banhammers start swinging.

    It may work, just do not put faith in it. In the first place, I find it better to avoid.

    Jeez, I never took this thread as being sided at all. It merely mentioned harassment, but made no mention to the In Game Names, but as a general discussion on how to handle such a concern, which does happen, mind you. Does. It is more akin to a hypothetical than any on sided self defense presented.
    SherriNilrem
  • XiokunXiokun
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    I'm confused. :/

    Let's just make a better blacklisting system.
    SherriTheDumbOneSphyra21
  • AtaraxizAtaraxiz
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    edited September 5, 2017
    Fun fact: I've been harassed non-stop here on the forums and on the game for almost a year now, and have continuously reported said people(s). What has Nexon done? Absolutely nothing besides lock threads. That's all.

    My best advice to anyone going through this: Be sure you screenshot anything via MABINOGI and even take a video of it through Mabi. They will not check screenies from other programs. They'll just mark your case closed wether valuable evidence or not (this happened too me).

    If harassment continues, just ignore it. Screenshot, move on. You have better things to take care of rather than focus solely on this or leave the game because of it.

    In truth: This game was made for enjoyment, and it's really up to you if you let this stop you from enjoying the game. If it's really a big deal to you and it outweighs your love for this game, be my guest and let if affect how you socialize or if you continue socializing; that's your honest opinion/decision. But, if you ignore it and move on and not talk about it, you can go back to your life.

    Piece of advice: If you completely ignore something and continue living your life, you are untouchable by trolls or rude people. Don't let someone else defy your love for this game and it's community.
    HardmuscleYellowBinGretaSherri
  • HardmuscleHardmuscle
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    edited September 5, 2017
    Ataraxiz wrote: »
    Fun fact: I've been harassed non-stop here on the forums and on the game for almost a year now, and have continuously reported said people(s). What has Nexon done? Absolutely nothing besides lock threads. That's all.

    My best advice to anyone going through this: Be sure you screenshot anything via MABINOGI and even take a video of it through Mabi. They will not check screenies from other programs. They'll just mark your case closed wether valuable evidence or not (this happened too me).

    If harassment continues, just ignore it. Screenshot, move on. You have better things to take care of rather than focus solely on this or leave the game because of it.

    In truth: This game was made for enjoyment, and it's really up to you if you let this stop you from enjoying the game. If it's really a big deal to you and it outweighs your love for this game, be my guest and let if affect how you socialize or if you continue socializing; that's your honest opinion/decision. But, if you ignore it and move on and not talk about it, you can go back to your life.

    Piece of advice: If you completely ignore something and continue living your life, you are untouchable by trolls or rude people. Don't let someone else defy your love for this game and it's community.
    This thread (about a specific person; named or not) died 6 days ago. The below image is an accurate representation of your post. I'm not saying I disagree with anything you said; just that this situation did not belong in the forum to start with; let alone need to be revived a week later. :)

    vuLm15j.gif

    TheNyanCat
  • AtaraxizAtaraxiz
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    edited September 5, 2017
    Hardmuscle wrote: »
    Ataraxiz wrote: »
    Fun fact: I've been harassed non-stop here on the forums and on the game for almost a year now, and have continuously reported said people(s). What has Nexon done? Absolutely nothing besides lock threads. That's all.

    My best advice to anyone going through this: Be sure you screenshot anything via MABINOGI and even take a video of it through Mabi. They will not check screenies from other programs. They'll just mark your case closed wether valuable evidence or not (this happened too me).

    If harassment continues, just ignore it. Screenshot, move on. You have better things to take care of rather than focus solely on this or leave the game because of it.

    In truth: This game was made for enjoyment, and it's really up to you if you let this stop you from enjoying the game. If it's really a big deal to you and it outweighs your love for this game, be my guest and let if affect how you socialize or if you continue socializing; that's your honest opinion/decision. But, if you ignore it and move on and not talk about it, you can go back to your life.

    Piece of advice: If you completely ignore something and continue living your life, you are untouchable by trolls or rude people. Don't let someone else defy your love for this game and it's community.
    This thread (about a specific person; named or not) died 6 days ago. The below image is an accurate representation of your post. I'm not saying I disagree with anything you said; just that this situation did not belong in the forum to start with; let alone need to be revived a week later. :)

    vuLm15j.gif

    I'm actually allowed to post on any thread as long as the last comment does not exceed a month's time OuO . I felt like something should be said, so I said it. The initial situation may have been about a specific person or group, however my post is directed towards those who actually have no idea how to handle a similar situation. VFMs handled the issue in the initial post, so it really doesn't matter if I post, given mine is about a general-calling. It's also not necro-bumping or generally bumping since my comment has something relevant to the topic - whether anyone feels like I should have said anything or not.

    Harassment happens somewhere ingame everyday. Not to mention, it causes a lot of people to be overly stressed/depressed if they're unsure how to handle the situation. Since this is something I have a personal experience in, I feel like my two-cents was fine to be given considering the situation I'm in hasn't had action taken by Nexon at all. This is just a wake-up call to those who are in the same position as this:

    "You don't need to quit the game or ignite a situation further just because Nexon doesn't take action. Just ignore it, move on, if it continues oh well, it won't matter in the long run. If other people stick their noses in the wrong place that's their fault. Don't worry about it."

    Given how I haven't posted on this thread and my comment was civil and on-topic, I kindly disagree that my comment was against any rules and was simply advice to those who have no idea on how to handle a situation similar to this :3

    Tacking on to this: Anyone's advice or opinion is valuable to situations like this. If someone really needed help, my comment or anyone's comment could help someone through a situation without needing to make a post themselves. Therefore, I do not regret making a post since I offered Intel on things that could help their case or advice to get them through their situation. It might be "beating a dead horse" in some eyes, however, my comment did not purse any threats or rule-breaking, and the initial problem (OP posted a name or something that was removed) was taken care of. Therefore, I did not "beat a dead horse" due to my comment offering advice and it corresponded to the topic that the post was initially made about. ^~^
    IyasenuGretaSherri
  • HardmuscleHardmuscle
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    edited September 5, 2017
    Ataraxiz wrote: »
    Hardmuscle wrote: »
    Ataraxiz wrote: »
    Fun fact: I've been harassed non-stop here on the forums and on the game for almost a year now, and have continuously reported said people(s). What has Nexon done? Absolutely nothing besides lock threads. That's all.

    My best advice to anyone going through this: Be sure you screenshot anything via MABINOGI and even take a video of it through Mabi. They will not check screenies from other programs. They'll just mark your case closed wether valuable evidence or not (this happened too me).

    If harassment continues, just ignore it. Screenshot, move on. You have better things to take care of rather than focus solely on this or leave the game because of it.

    In truth: This game was made for enjoyment, and it's really up to you if you let this stop you from enjoying the game. If it's really a big deal to you and it outweighs your love for this game, be my guest and let if affect how you socialize or if you continue socializing; that's your honest opinion/decision. But, if you ignore it and move on and not talk about it, you can go back to your life.

    Piece of advice: If you completely ignore something and continue living your life, you are untouchable by trolls or rude people. Don't let someone else defy your love for this game and it's community.
    This thread (about a specific person; named or not) died 6 days ago. The below image is an accurate representation of your post. I'm not saying I disagree with anything you said; just that this situation did not belong in the forum to start with; let alone need to be revived a week later. :)

    vuLm15j.gif

    I'm actually allowed to post on any thread as long as the last comment does not exceed a month's time OuO . I felt like something should be said, so I said it. The initial situation may have been about a specific person or group, however my post is directed towards those who actually have no idea how to handle a similar situation. VFMs handled the issue in the initial post, so it really doesn't matter if I post, given mine is about a general-calling. It's also not necro-bumping or generally bumping since my comment has something relevant to the topic - whether anyone feels like I should have said anything or not.

    Harassment happens somewhere ingame everyday. Not to mention, it causes a lot of people to be overly stressed/depressed if they're unsure how to handle the situation. Since this is something I have a personal experience in, I feel like my two-cents was fine to be given considering the situation I'm in hasn't had action taken by Nexon at all. This is just a wake-up call to those who are in the same position as this:

    "You don't need to quit the game or ignite a situation further just because Nexon doesn't take action. Just ignore it, move on, if it continues oh well, it won't matter in the long run. If other people stick their noses in the wrong place that's their fault. Don't worry about it."

    Given how I haven't posted on this thread and my comment was civil and on-topic, I kindly disagree that my comment was against any rules and was simply advice to those who have no idea on how to handle a situation similar to this :3
    Wow. Talk about taking what was said out of context. I didn't say you broke any rules. I said the thread doesn't belong here, because it is in fact about a specific user whose name will not be stated (it is harassment). The thread died last week. All you're doing now is beating a dead horse.

    You talk about knowing what it's like and "understanding", but that doesn't appear to be true.

  • AtaraxizAtaraxiz
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    edited September 5, 2017
    Hardmuscle wrote: »
    Ataraxiz wrote: »
    Hardmuscle wrote: »
    Ataraxiz wrote: »
    Fun fact: I've been harassed non-stop here on the forums and on the game for almost a year now, and have continuously reported said people(s). What has Nexon done? Absolutely nothing besides lock threads. That's all.

    My best advice to anyone going through this: Be sure you screenshot anything via MABINOGI and even take a video of it through Mabi. They will not check screenies from other programs. They'll just mark your case closed wether valuable evidence or not (this happened too me).

    If harassment continues, just ignore it. Screenshot, move on. You have better things to take care of rather than focus solely on this or leave the game because of it.

    In truth: This game was made for enjoyment, and it's really up to you if you let this stop you from enjoying the game. If it's really a big deal to you and it outweighs your love for this game, be my guest and let if affect how you socialize or if you continue socializing; that's your honest opinion/decision. But, if you ignore it and move on and not talk about it, you can go back to your life.

    Piece of advice: If you completely ignore something and continue living your life, you are untouchable by trolls or rude people. Don't let someone else defy your love for this game and it's community.
    This thread (about a specific person; named or not) died 6 days ago. The below image is an accurate representation of your post. I'm not saying I disagree with anything you said; just that this situation did not belong in the forum to start with; let alone need to be revived a week later. :)

    vuLm15j.gif

    I'm actually allowed to post on any thread as long as the last comment does not exceed a month's time OuO . I felt like something should be said, so I said it. The initial situation may have been about a specific person or group, however my post is directed towards those who actually have no idea how to handle a similar situation. VFMs handled the issue in the initial post, so it really doesn't matter if I post, given mine is about a general-calling. It's also not necro-bumping or generally bumping since my comment has something relevant to the topic - whether anyone feels like I should have said anything or not.

    Harassment happens somewhere ingame everyday. Not to mention, it causes a lot of people to be overly stressed/depressed if they're unsure how to handle the situation. Since this is something I have a personal experience in, I feel like my two-cents was fine to be given considering the situation I'm in hasn't had action taken by Nexon at all. This is just a wake-up call to those who are in the same position as this:

    "You don't need to quit the game or ignite a situation further just because Nexon doesn't take action. Just ignore it, move on, if it continues oh well, it won't matter in the long run. If other people stick their noses in the wrong place that's their fault. Don't worry about it."

    Given how I haven't posted on this thread and my comment was civil and on-topic, I kindly disagree that my comment was against any rules and was simply advice to those who have no idea on how to handle a situation similar to this :3
    Wow. Talk about taking what was said out of context. I didn't say you broke any rules. I said the thread doesn't belong here, because it is in fact about a specific user whose name will not be stated. The thread died 6 days ago, and all you're doing now is beating a dead horse to get the last word. On topic or not.

    I'm actually standing up for myself because I haven't commented here and I felt like you were denying that right even though OP broke the rules (to which I actually had nothing to do with) - I haven't had time to comment on much for a week and I have experience in this particular field, so I wanted to give my advice.

    Sorry for "taking it out of context", but I thought you were referring to bumping (meaning the thread was too old or inactive to comment in). The thread was on the first page, and I felt like I could comment so I did.

    I didn't refer to anything that OP said besides advice on how to deal with harassment - to which I will repeat - and I will add I have nothing to do with that situation:

    If someone harasses you and nothing is done, move on, focus on what really matters - because it is doubtful it will come up again in the long run. If it does, continue to be happy and have fun in the game - which is it's initial purpose.
    KouyioueIyasenuSherri
  • HardmuscleHardmuscle
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    edited September 5, 2017
    Ataraxiz wrote: »
    Hardmuscle wrote: »
    Ataraxiz wrote: »
    Hardmuscle wrote: »
    Ataraxiz wrote: »
    Fun fact: I've been harassed non-stop here on the forums and on the game for almost a year now, and have continuously reported said people(s). What has Nexon done? Absolutely nothing besides lock threads. That's all.

    My best advice to anyone going through this: Be sure you screenshot anything via MABINOGI and even take a video of it through Mabi. They will not check screenies from other programs. They'll just mark your case closed wether valuable evidence or not (this happened too me).

    If harassment continues, just ignore it. Screenshot, move on. You have better things to take care of rather than focus solely on this or leave the game because of it.

    In truth: This game was made for enjoyment, and it's really up to you if you let this stop you from enjoying the game. If it's really a big deal to you and it outweighs your love for this game, be my guest and let if affect how you socialize or if you continue socializing; that's your honest opinion/decision. But, if you ignore it and move on and not talk about it, you can go back to your life.

    Piece of advice: If you completely ignore something and continue living your life, you are untouchable by trolls or rude people. Don't let someone else defy your love for this game and it's community.
    This thread (about a specific person; named or not) died 6 days ago. The below image is an accurate representation of your post. I'm not saying I disagree with anything you said; just that this situation did not belong in the forum to start with; let alone need to be revived a week later. :)

    vuLm15j.gif

    I'm actually allowed to post on any thread as long as the last comment does not exceed a month's time OuO . I felt like something should be said, so I said it. The initial situation may have been about a specific person or group, however my post is directed towards those who actually have no idea how to handle a similar situation. VFMs handled the issue in the initial post, so it really doesn't matter if I post, given mine is about a general-calling. It's also not necro-bumping or generally bumping since my comment has something relevant to the topic - whether anyone feels like I should have said anything or not.

    Harassment happens somewhere ingame everyday. Not to mention, it causes a lot of people to be overly stressed/depressed if they're unsure how to handle the situation. Since this is something I have a personal experience in, I feel like my two-cents was fine to be given considering the situation I'm in hasn't had action taken by Nexon at all. This is just a wake-up call to those who are in the same position as this:

    "You don't need to quit the game or ignite a situation further just because Nexon doesn't take action. Just ignore it, move on, if it continues oh well, it won't matter in the long run. If other people stick their noses in the wrong place that's their fault. Don't worry about it."

    Given how I haven't posted on this thread and my comment was civil and on-topic, I kindly disagree that my comment was against any rules and was simply advice to those who have no idea on how to handle a situation similar to this :3
    Wow. Talk about taking what was said out of context. I didn't say you broke any rules. I said the thread doesn't belong here, because it is in fact about a specific user whose name will not be stated. The thread died 6 days ago, and all you're doing now is beating a dead horse to get the last word. On topic or not.

    I'm actually standing up for myself because I haven't commented here and I feel like you're denying that right even though OP broke the rules (to which I actually had nothing to do with) - I haven't had time to comment on much for a week and I have experience in this particular field, so I wanted to give my advice.

    Sorry for "taking it out of context", but I thought you were referring to bumping (meaning the thread was too old or inactive to comment in). The thread was on the first page, and I felt like I could comment so I did.

    I didn't refer to anything that OP said besides advice on how to deal with harassment - to which I will repeat - and I will add I have nothing to do with that situation:

    If someone harasses you and nothing is done, move on, focus on what really matters - because it is doubtful it will come up again in the long run. If it does, continue to be happy and have fun in the game - which is it's initial purpose.
    This thread was created with the intent to harass a certain person (with a 3 letter name) on the Tarlach Server. While certain people in this thread will tell you it's not about this person (in the thread); those same people have no problem sending private messages to wail about their rights to harass this specific person. That is why this thread died last week. The thread itself is harassment.
  • AtaraxizAtaraxiz
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    edited September 5, 2017
    Hardmuscle wrote: »
    Ataraxiz wrote: »
    Hardmuscle wrote: »
    Ataraxiz wrote: »
    Hardmuscle wrote: »
    Ataraxiz wrote: »
    Fun fact: I've been harassed non-stop here on the forums and on the game for almost a year now, and have continuously reported said people(s). What has Nexon done? Absolutely nothing besides lock threads. That's all.

    My best advice to anyone going through this: Be sure you screenshot anything via MABINOGI and even take a video of it through Mabi. They will not check screenies from other programs. They'll just mark your case closed wether valuable evidence or not (this happened too me).

    If harassment continues, just ignore it. Screenshot, move on. You have better things to take care of rather than focus solely on this or leave the game because of it.

    In truth: This game was made for enjoyment, and it's really up to you if you let this stop you from enjoying the game. If it's really a big deal to you and it outweighs your love for this game, be my guest and let if affect how you socialize or if you continue socializing; that's your honest opinion/decision. But, if you ignore it and move on and not talk about it, you can go back to your life.

    Piece of advice: If you completely ignore something and continue living your life, you are untouchable by trolls or rude people. Don't let someone else defy your love for this game and it's community.
    This thread (about a specific person; named or not) died 6 days ago. The below image is an accurate representation of your post. I'm not saying I disagree with anything you said; just that this situation did not belong in the forum to start with; let alone need to be revived a week later. :)

    vuLm15j.gif

    I'm actually allowed to post on any thread as long as the last comment does not exceed a month's time OuO . I felt like something should be said, so I said it. The initial situation may have been about a specific person or group, however my post is directed towards those who actually have no idea how to handle a similar situation. VFMs handled the issue in the initial post, so it really doesn't matter if I post, given mine is about a general-calling. It's also not necro-bumping or generally bumping since my comment has something relevant to the topic - whether anyone feels like I should have said anything or not.

    Harassment happens somewhere ingame everyday. Not to mention, it causes a lot of people to be overly stressed/depressed if they're unsure how to handle the situation. Since this is something I have a personal experience in, I feel like my two-cents was fine to be given considering the situation I'm in hasn't had action taken by Nexon at all. This is just a wake-up call to those who are in the same position as this:

    "You don't need to quit the game or ignite a situation further just because Nexon doesn't take action. Just ignore it, move on, if it continues oh well, it won't matter in the long run. If other people stick their noses in the wrong place that's their fault. Don't worry about it."

    Given how I haven't posted on this thread and my comment was civil and on-topic, I kindly disagree that my comment was against any rules and was simply advice to those who have no idea on how to handle a situation similar to this :3
    Wow. Talk about taking what was said out of context. I didn't say you broke any rules. I said the thread doesn't belong here, because it is in fact about a specific user whose name will not be stated. The thread died 6 days ago, and all you're doing now is beating a dead horse to get the last word. On topic or not.

    I'm actually standing up for myself because I haven't commented here and I feel like you're denying that right even though OP broke the rules (to which I actually had nothing to do with) - I haven't had time to comment on much for a week and I have experience in this particular field, so I wanted to give my advice.

    Sorry for "taking it out of context", but I thought you were referring to bumping (meaning the thread was too old or inactive to comment in). The thread was on the first page, and I felt like I could comment so I did.

    I didn't refer to anything that OP said besides advice on how to deal with harassment - to which I will repeat - and I will add I have nothing to do with that situation:

    If someone harasses you and nothing is done, move on, focus on what really matters - because it is doubtful it will come up again in the long run. If it does, continue to be happy and have fun in the game - which is it's initial purpose.
    This thread was created with the intent to harass a certain person (with a 3 letter name) on the Tarlach Server. While certain people in this thread will tell you it's not about this person (in the thread); those same people have no problem sending private messages to wail about their rights to harass this specific person. That is why this thread died last week.

    I didn't know this - as you can tell by my initial post. I had nothing to do with this situation and my advice was directed at those who have experienced harassment, not the OP directly.

    I care about those people who need this advice and therefore I made my experience known without giving any details. Whether you think I've actually experienced this or not (you've actually seen this happen) - that is not the point of my post. My post is about what to do or feel if a situation happens. It's merely related to the topic, not directly involved.
    Sherri
  • KouyioueKouyioue
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    edited September 5, 2017
    They're just going to keep replying in order to be the " " last-words " " . Regardless and without composure for how much this topic is destroyed as the expense.

    Besides, if it becomes an actual problem: Those in charge can simply read the hidden stealth-edits and delete the topic of their own free will. - - - Thanks for your tips,

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    Edit: And of course a few minutes later I joyfully point this out: :)
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    You can't really hide stealth edits from someone who actually has more web experience than you claim to have. Also, I don't need to save HTML the old-fashioned way, browser extensions exist now that do it in a much cleaner more technologically advanced, contractually questionable way xD
    IyasenuHardmuscle
  • HardmuscleHardmuscle
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    edited September 5, 2017
    Ataraxiz wrote: »
    I didn't know this - as you can tell by my initial post. I had nothing to do with this situation and my advice was directed at those who have experienced harassment, not the OP directly.

    I care about those people who need this advice and therefore I made my experience known without giving any details. Whether you think I've actually experienced this or not - that is not the point of my post. My post is about what to do or feel if a situation happens. It's merely related to the topic, not directly involved.
    In case you didn't notice. I didn't disagree with your initial post. I simply implied this thread was better off dead.

    You were not defending yourself against anything in this thread. ~ Reading it will help you comprehend it better.
    Kouyioue wrote: »
    They're just going to keep replying in order to be the " " last-words " " .
    You are part of the equation.

    No matter how many people like what you post, or how many posts you like. This thread's purpose is the same.

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