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Closed General Respect/Handling Grief
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On topic, if you see somebody getting bullied or you are getting bullied yourself, don't be afraid to report the one being mean.
If possible, you could civilly defend the person/yourself.
- if someone blocks you, and you continue to send them notes then you are harassing them.
-unless their sending you notes back that isn't "stop noting me or ill have to report you" which doesn't sound like the case.
To be honest they need to fix note sending so you cant message people you blocked or got blocked.people should be freely able to fight in mabi, but shouldn't freely be able to keep conversing after someone got black listed.
If you can see your getting messages from someone you blacklisted, and your saying "stop messaging me, ive black listed you" and they continue, then i dont care who started it.
i dont care if the person came up to you wished death on your family, cussed you out, and made every lil awful notion of you possible. if that person who did allllll that BLACK LISTED YOU-STOPS COMMUNICATION WITH YOU- and clearly says "dont message me or ill report you" then THATS IT!
once you black list someone, or when someone black lists you, and the conversation keeps going on SOME HOW, at the POINT it should be report-able. I think unless the person reporting is the person bothering the other person AFTER a black list, then its a different story.
Look, if knowing what happened is REALLY THAT IMPORTANT to you, make an alt, jump on Tarlach, and ask around.
No really, ask around. Channel 7. Could even find me if you want.
Believe me, this isn't the 2 sided story your little imagination is thinking up.
I would say more, but I would rather be CIVIL and NOT DROP NAMES.
Random? Look. Perhaps I need to be more information heavy on you.
OP? I know him in game. Troublemaker mentioned? Also know him in game.
You literally can't be a jerk in Tarlach without 80% of the server knowing.
Just hop on for story time and save everyone the trouble.
Nilrem gettin spicy
Funny you say that, cuz i havent been consistently online in game for about a month. So no this wasnt centered around a specific time. And not any specific person either. People..shore, but not any single person.
Edit: theres a full server of stories about this. Thats why i brought it up.
Edit2: hell there's a whooole half the world that can you tell you stories about similar incidents all over the internet.
No, it was not.
You are only thinking that way.
Did you even read my post or the many posts replying the same thing?
Get the heck out of here..stop trying and succeeding in derailing the discussion..there is no double talk there. She is literally inviting you to ask her all about it.
Fixed that for you.
Also I literally cannot mention anything about this troublemaker, as even the slightest important detail will make it so obvious that it might as well be name dropping. Which is also against forum rules. Hence why I want to just pass the information in game.
Look Sherlock. I'm going to be blunt. Half the population of Tarlach/Anyone in Tarlach that has ever been to Tir knows OP.
He was often seen afk next to the tailoring station.
You just dont understand..you could ask anyone in tarach..you could ask anyone in the world. And 90% of them can point out one bully or another. It just so happens that its happening here in this community and it shouldnt be. Tarlach is small. Its more concentrated. You need to stop. You're hiding behind a screen and defending people that hurt people for laughs. At this point you are exact proof of what this discussion was meant to be about.
Neither actually. I know that sounds confusing, but this is another part of why I can't mention anything.
This is also sort of why I want you to just message me in game for the full story, mostly about who this troublemaker in question is.
You're not listening. Its only a small number of people in tarlach. You would have to be blind to not see who is doing what. She said this. She said she could point out multiple people. Which we have all insinuated from the beginning. You are literally the only person that thinks it is one person.
im not standing up for anyone. i simply stayed on topic, which was "My question to the community is what do you do? When blacklisting doesnt block notes and reporting will only get them a temporary ban at most, how do you handle the grief and disrespect and keep it from bothering you too much? Do you stand up for the person being attacked or do you keep your head down and walk away?"
My answer was simply that if your getting notes after you blacklisted them, then you can report it. :T
If Paradox ended up harassing someone they black listed or black listed them, then thats when paradox is most likely able to get reported. +++No matter who started it.+++
Your issue is your still stuck on a much smaller picture. which is "whose this person?" and "did you start it?"
If you just jumped into the game from the start I could have told you the entire story by now.
I'm not joking. It really could have been that simple.
Instead of solving the problem, the one you made but you won't ever view it that way because protagonist syndrome, you just continue in an endless cycle of accusations.
I came back to this thread to help you and clear up misinformation forming in your mind.
Apparently you can't even work with that. So I shall take my leave.
You did indeed prove it takes two people to argue. I see that now very clearly. Congrats. Now go argue by yourself because as far as I'm concerned and i think most can agree with me. We are done helping you prove your own points.
even if you both argued, if Nilrem black listed you in mabi, and you continued to message them, they still have the abillity to report you
the forum of course is different. so even though you proved that it takes two to argue. it takes 1 person to END a argument.
[edit] which is a much more effective method
[second edit] i also said someone can walk up to you and just spout w/e they wanted and black listed you without you saying anything. and they could still send a ticket reporting you, if you messaged them after them telling you not to message them.
thats why i dont believe arguing matters....
the person didnt know, they said everything BUT sending a ticket. thats why i clarified. - thats why this post exists.. even if its a real argument, the issue of the post is "what do i do about it" and the person name wasnt mentioned. you dont say "send a ticket and take the post down". its clear written post without names, about how to solve an issue they didnt know how.
its "touchy" but its irrelevant.