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Closed General Respect/Handling Grief
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Who are you to decide what this conversation is about? What makes you think I'm even involved in the overall equation? Cuz my name might be associated with one or more parties? Cuz I posted about it? I posted about it cuz I'm tired of hearing about people getting harassed and wanted to seek advice from the community on how they would or have handled it. The only side to this is one person calling another names and bullying them. If you find that to be out of my rights and against the rules. To seek advice from my peers then so be it. Not my problem. But if you can justify someone being called names. Someone who was in no way involved in anything anyone had done. Then you're the one in the wrong. I can fight my own fights and anyone that knows me can tell you that. I dont need a community to back my up. I hold no grudges. But when random or innocent people are being harassed theres an issue. And it needs to be talked about. You think I'm talking about one person. But I'm not talking about one person, I'm talking about multiple. This is not an isolated incident. And this has gone on long enough. My overall objective with this post was and is to seek advice from my more mature peers about what to do. And to hopefully spread some awareness about intercommunity bullying.
Tarlach is the least populated server in the game..its not hard to guess who is and who isn't guilty of bullying..
Edit:
ha·rass·ment
həˈrasmənt,ˈherəsmənt
noun
aggressive pressure or intimidation.
"the state also grants us the right to pursue this belief without any form of persecution or harassment"
synonyms: persecution, intimidation, pressure, force, coercion; informalhassle
"the report cites three separate accusations of harassment"
When do we get to read the other half of the story?
You dont get to..there is no other side of the story..there is no story. There is no accusations. There is only an attempt to communicate and seek advice. Those who are guilty of bullying know it, those who arent arent. They wanna stand up and give their half then they can..i cant believe you're even trying to justify someone calling another names and harassing them..
Troll Rating 11/10
Don't be that dude, dude. You're just lighting yourself on fire for nothing.
...yes because a name totally fits there grammatically and it wasnt an admin removing a swear word at all..
We don't, and we shouldn't.
Then it'd be officially drama.
And become a true kangaroo court.
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~gavel banging~
All rise, Judge Public Opinion presiding over the case of General Chat v. Mystery Tarlachian.
Order in the court!
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But really, it's vague, with no names, so no one on the outside would think it's much more than a general discussion about whether or not you'd take a proactive role in helping keep Mabi harassment down, or be some kind of complicit observer, with a mention of the discussion being brought on by a recent incident that they witnessed.
That is what it looks like to me, a Marian who doesn't know who the one in question is.
It looks like the OP wanted some empathy.
Or advice.
At worst, it's just venting through vagueposting.
It's not a call to arms to rise up against someone who, as you've mentioned a few times, could probably have a side of the story that is more than "I purposely set someone off for laughs".
If it was purely to vent, just let them get it out of their system.
Let them get the advice and opinions they asked for.
If a name were to get named, that's when the mods would swoop in, edit it out, and lock the thread to spare the person from harassment or counter-harassment.
Unless that happens, any lock on this thread is probably going to be caused by it going horrendously off-topic.
And that can stop right now.
On topic, if you see somebody getting bullied or you are getting bullied yourself, don't be afraid to report the one being mean.
If possible, you could civilly defend the person/yourself.
- if someone blocks you, and you continue to send them notes then you are harassing them.
-unless their sending you notes back that isn't "stop noting me or ill have to report you" which doesn't sound like the case.
To be honest they need to fix note sending so you cant message people you blocked or got blocked.people should be freely able to fight in mabi, but shouldn't freely be able to keep conversing after someone got black listed.
If you can see your getting messages from someone you blacklisted, and your saying "stop messaging me, ive black listed you" and they continue, then i dont care who started it.
i dont care if the person came up to you wished death on your family, cussed you out, and made every lil awful notion of you possible. if that person who did allllll that BLACK LISTED YOU-STOPS COMMUNICATION WITH YOU- and clearly says "dont message me or ill report you" then THATS IT!
once you black list someone, or when someone black lists you, and the conversation keeps going on SOME HOW, at the POINT it should be report-able. I think unless the person reporting is the person bothering the other person AFTER a black list, then its a different story.